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Knowing how it is getting increasingly difficult for women to remain in their matrimonial homes these days, newly married teen actress Regina Daniels, in a recent tell-all question and answer session has dropped a major bombshell that might cause some damage to her union.

It is no secret that the young actress has come under severe backlash in the past few months after her marriage to 59-year-old Nigerian politician and businessman, Ned Nwoko.

Regina Daniels recently did an enlightening question tag video in which she revealed personal details about herself. She spoke of her crush, her loved ones, her secrets and gave vital marital updates. She made the interesting revelations about herself in the latest video on her YouTube channel, Regina Daniels TV. She answered a few questions in her video of which she revealed who her crush was. In the video, Regina was asked who her crush was and she answered shyly that it was Burna Boy the “ganja boy”.

The young actress answered other questions including the most obvious question which is if she was married. She answered the question by moving her ring from her middle finger to the ring finger and then finally said yes she is married. This comes as a surprise as Regina Daniels recently tied the knot. Also, this move confirmed the report that Regina Daniels keeps her wedding ring on her middle finger instead of the ring finger.

She also went on to divulge that the last person she texted was Somadina, the actor who has often been referred to as her ex-boyfriend.

Almost immediately, her response sparked off angry comments from social media users who saw it. Some likened her case to that of a fetish trap waiting to kill someone; some talked about it being the result of being forcefully married to an old but rich man. Others simply insulted her and told her to leave their darling Burna boy alone. All theses reactions have one thing in common: it wasn’t welcomed by the people.

Now, the question is, why would a married woman, who is happily married, be crushing on somebody else? While we leave you to answer the question yourself, here are some things we know on the matter. Let’s get the big question out of the way—it’s normal to develop a crush on someone other than your spouse. Maybe you’re using this crush as a distraction. It eventually becomes a bad habit that you’re continuously feeding.

Repeated, irrational crushes can be neurotic. It’s a way to distract oneself from what is present and real. Unless you decide to live as a monk with absolutely no human contact it’s inevitable you will periodically meet someone who shares an attraction. You may think you’re the worst person in the world, but in truth you’re simply human. Chemistry is uncontrollable and a natural phenomenon.

Yes, Regina is freshly married, she’s as happy as June-bugs, life seems one infinite, rimless custard pie, and joy and gladness, so to speak, seem to have moved in to stay, occupying the front room and being present in your life. Hence, she might get in trouble if she doesn’t stop that crush. So what are you supposed to do when you’re in a happily committed relationship and come face-to-face with an extramarital crush? Here are a few ways to ensure your harmless crush stays that way and more importantly, what the crush can teach you about your marriage.

Just know it will pass. According to psychologists, a crush lasts on average for four months; if feelings persist beyond that you’re moving into the territory of being “in love.” While you’re in the middle of this crush, the X-factor on how you decide to act on it, which not surprisingly comes down to your character, personality traits, as well as satisfaction in your current relationship. The majority will see this for what it is and have the checks and balances to understand this is a temporary thing and let the crush die a natural death.

You need to evaluate and learn from your crush. There is some evidence to suggest that there’s something to be learned from your crush. Being attracted to someone, or even being more inclined to notice attractiveness in others is what psychologists term “attention to alternatives.” Research shows those with greater relationship satisfaction pay less attention to alternative partners. Obsessive thinking is the hallmark of an intense crush and a big red flag. It’s definitely time to reflect on your relationship: what may be going on there—or not going on—causing you to be so swept away by someone else.

It may or may not be okay to keep your crush a secret. Generally, I would say never keep secrets from your spouse, but in this situation there are some caveats. You may think an emotional  crush is harmless, but your partner may consider it cheating. To fess up is a personal choice. Some believe keeping those feelings a secret constitutes a form of betrayal. To others, crushes are private things and the only reason you tell your spouse is to relieve your own guilt. You need to ask yourself, by telling your partner how will it help your marriage?

Remember, while in the throes of a crush you are living in a fantasy world which looks infinitely better than the hard work of your long term relationship. The more you indulge a crush, the more that someone will consume you until you do something you might regret. Conversely out of sight is out of mind in a very short time span.

Start paying attention to your husband big time. Think about him and what you can do for him that will improve your relationship. Nurture the relationship that you have. Remember that you are a role-model for young people out there. It’s not that you don’t have a nice marriage, but you are using a lot of energy thinking of your crush. Make some popcorn, go sit with your husband and watch a movie. Be present in your family and marriage.

Now, Regina, when that time comes I want you to remember this one thing;  ‘DON’T LET ANY TROUBLE GET IN BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! The accent is on the word ‘BETWEEN.’ If you continue to have this crush on Burna Boy, it could be termed  as emotional cheating and that is as bad as physical cheating. It needs to stop!